She's not someone who likes to wallow in self-pity .
她不是那种喜欢自怜的人。
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I was unable to shake off my self-pity...
我无法摆脱自怜自哀的情绪。
Throughout, he showed no trace of self-pity.
他从始至终都没有表现出一丝的自怜。
When something goes wrong try to figure out a solution instead of wallowing in self pity.
如果出了麻烦事,就努力想出解决的办法,而不要沉溺于顾影自怜.
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